She's dating him! all that drama for nothin? YES!

OMG! heelloooo everyone!
i have not posted in a while...SO here i go!

i want to talk about "sluts" and why people date a different person a week. And also cheating and cheaters...is it ever ok? answer: no. "BUT what if your drunk kim??" the answer is STILL NO! why? your hurting people by your actions. So let me make this clear for you CHEATER! or CHEATERET!! Yes you see, you and the person you cheat with are both at fault. Well sometimes. Let me give you an example.

Ex1) Say your dating long distance. They live in WI (wisconsin aka cheese head state) and you live in Florida! Now lets say a few of your friends think that is crazy. And this guy/girl keeps flirting with you. And you tell them you have a specail someone. But guess what? When they find out where they are. They dont care...Yes thats right THEY KNOW you have someone and yet they still push and push and pushhhhhhhhh still you kiss them or something. Then when you DO! some people dont tell their partner. "HA they live so far away how can they ever find out??" But guilt is a bitch. SO you do say that you cheated. And when they find out you get dumbed. Or they dont trust you and they give you one more chance.

The point of this is. If you know someone has a bf/gf DO NOT get involed. DO NOT tell them "Oh but there soo far away" or "They will never know" Cuz trust me THEY DO!

Ex2) Your dating two people at once. Why? Cuz your a greedy son of a BEEP! I mean if one person is NOT enough for you then do NOT make a serious relationship! Just have hook ups. Its not much of a solution, but dont hurt two people b/c you can not CHOOSE between them. "But i love them both!!" And your hurting them both, so you obviously dont love either of them do you? "OUCH" yeah i went there...

Now when i say Hook UP i dont mean every single DAY. People that Hook up seem to be called "whores" or "sluts" and even my personal fav "Ho"
So im going to see what the top deffintions of these words are. "where?" urban dictionary baby! here we go *goes onto the web site*

Whore:(1) A term used by people who sleep around to insult someone who doesnt; as for an act of jealousy.
(2) A woman who is paid for sexual services.

Slut: a woman with the morals of a man
(me: hahaha sooo true!)

Ho: Anyone who dehumanizes themselves by selling their soul to others. The term can be applied to either a man or a woman.

So this is what people of this world think. now in the actual dictionary!

Slut: 1.a dirty, slovenly woman.
2.an immoral or dissolute woman; prostitute.

Whore: 1.a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet.

Ho: 1.(used as a call to attract attention, sometimes specially used after a word denoting a destination): Westward ho! Land ho!
2.(used as an exclamation of surprise or delight.)

Okay, so after looking at these definenitions have your out look on these words changed? i mean is that girl really a whore? is that girl really a slut??
Only i can tell you the fact. But the opoin is all up to you.

Now why am i talking about this? Simple. My friend Lets call her Kristill and her ex boyfriend (all fake names) Lyle. and her new Boyfriend Rain. Now. Kristill and Lyle went out on and off reaptivly. He cheated on her she cheated on him. Drama Drama flirtations here and there. So when Lyle FINALLY got over himself he asked Kristill out once more. Guess what happened! No he did not kill her and stuff her body in a attack somewhere in eastern europe. . .
HE asked HER out. So there they are Dating for how long? Threee days. Day two Rain moves into our school. Day three Kristill starts flirting with poor Rain. So guess where this is leading? yes Day four. Right in the morrning. Its a Tuesday...and you want to know how i know this? I was there, so yea i am speaking from my view, and what i saw...So Rain sit next to me. Kristill is across from me and lyle is on the other side of me...(like how im litterally in the middle of this) So lyle starts messing with Kristalls homework. And she and him kinda go into a little fight over it. Now he KNEW! some how he just KNEW that she was going to brake up with him. So he kept asking for a moment alone. i think he was going to dumb her before she dumbed him who knows. Anyway~ So they go off and Me and Rain are alone...Akward

So then thank goodness Braidy comes over and they start doing math homework. So i sneak off to see where Kristill went. turns out her and Lyle are holding hands talking then she pulls her hands away fast and looks angery. Yep they where deffently braking up. So i walk around the libary (yes we where in the libary in the morning) and i found a nice one : Bueaty and the Bully. very funny i think you should read it. OKay so by the time i pick out a good book. Lyle is at the table talking to Braidy Yeah...soo i go look for Kristill..Where do i find her?
With RAIN of corse!! They are walking around in the empty hallway together. First thing she does when she see's me? A HUG! and she is smiling and laughing and pritty much holding Rain's hand...Now im thinking. SLUT! (just kidding) i was more like: "hey kristill did u brake up with lyle?" OKay so 2 days Later...
She's dating Rain. Now i go to a class with lyle...and i see him every single day! and you know what he does? "She's such a Whore! YOU KNOW we only started going out a week and only hanged out once together right? and we fucked on day sick. She is a slut! i hope you see that, cuz honestly Kim, honestly she's a whore! im so glad i cheated on her-" and i hear this rant everytime i talk about kristill...even when they where going out on and off...same rant and still...i want to punch lyle in the you know where! and make him shut up. Mostly cuz Kristill is my friend and Lyle just annoys me. Plus me and Kristill used to date...

I hate to sound like the jelious ex, but it not that at all. I hate when people through things in my face you kno? So anyway...
Her and Rain dating, Lyle is bitching and me? Im sitting next to her and Rain in class everyday wishing i could knock some reason into her head. -sighs- But what can you do?

Well the point it. Do not and i mean it here. Do not date like my friend does. Do not date a new guy or girl every week. I mean date people. Lets just not be little sluts ok? I mean that for you to guys. Dating it okay, but just HAVING TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP. that dumb. Well in my opion it is. thats all for now. Later kiddies

~ iqupid Kimberley