Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Flirtation with Qupid

First rule on Flirting. Always keep it simple and light. It shouldn't be so hard to make a girl laugh or smile. Fast tip on how to get a girl to talk to you; ask her "would u like some gum?" its a ice breaker and if you don't know how to start a convo you can start talking about the gum. so always keep gum handy if your going to use this trick.

Boys; Most girls want a nice guy that can also be a bad boy. a Guy that is just himself. So when your flirting don't use corny pick up lines at first. They are cute and make them laugh but not the whole time.

Girls; Guys are so nervous when it comes to flirting. Sure they might not seem that way. But in the being most guys are a little anxious. So try to calm them down by not analyzing every little thing they do. Even if he makes a complete fool of himself. Just go with it.

Now for ladies picking up guys shouldn't be a problem. but its the right type of guy. when a guy starts to get nervous he goofs up a lot. Laugh and chill. So what he doesn't seem like prince charming today. But give a Guy a chance; when a guy starts to get nervous and has no idea what to say smile and think of something to talk about. If you keep a opened mind and not have such high standers then you'll find a nice guy right for you.

My favorite part about flirting is that its so much fun to see what you can flirt about. Once I flirted with someone about the Cookie Monster and Elmo. I know childish, but it had us laughing! You should always try to keep it on a ground you both know well for me it was Sesame Street. For you it could be about the stars in the sky or even bad coffee. When you get a convo moving along you don't need the help of your buddies your texting under the table to figure out what to say. Even when your flirting be yourself. And when your flirting partner is being himself you should be too. Its only natural for people to open up over something small.

So do yourself a Favor. Try to flirt with what i told you.